I know when I wake up sometimes it takes a minute to get going. I wouldn’t want anyone to hurry me or tell me I have to get up right now. It’s nice to be able to take my time and go slow. People living with dementia feel the same as I do. Probably the same as you too. It’s morning (if you don’t have to) don’t rush. Especially if you are getting out of bed with dementia, take your time. When waking up your person with dementia, gentle patient communication is essential. At this point, you are playing the role of their short term memory. You are the source of their context for what is happening. Because of this you have to give them information at a speed they can absorb it. Some tips: – Speak as you enter their room, identifying yourself and your relationship. – Approach from where they can see you, and speak in a calm, reassuring tone using their name. – Keep lights dim at first to let their eyes adjust. – Avoid rushing or making loud noises to prevent startling them. Take your time and keep the information coming (like: I hope you’re hungry its time for breakfast, I have your cane for you here, or we’ll look at the weather but it looks cold today). Sometimes information from you can help wake them up. It “warms up” their ears. It also helps them use what their memory can provide them by giving them the most information to work with. With a little bit of focus, patience and communication can make each morning a positive experience….